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writes:So, my brother had a friend and I he was always was like a big brother to me. Until he kissed me one night in Fifth grade and we decided that we had too much of a brother/ sister relationship to ever continue on with a serious relationship. But as we grew up I noticed we were both changing, and he was flirting more and more with me. He's not a jerk or anything, he's really cute and SO sweet, but when he got a girlfriend who was one of my best friend's in elementary school I was so happy for them. Two of the people I loved the most were together, but I couldn't shake the jealous feeling I felt when they were together. I shook it though and was a good and supportive friend to them. They were in love, I should be happy right? Well I was. Until they broke up over a stupid reason, I talked and hung out with him more and more. Practically everyday and he told me EVERYTHING and I told him everything and he admitted he liked me and I liked him. But he wasn't over her yet, and they're back together now and the jealousy is back. I love my friend and I love him! I don't wanna steal him, they're so happy together but I've fallen head over heels. Could someone help me?
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reader, Pixiewithatemper +, writes (13 March 2011):
Pixiewithatemper is verified as being by the original poster of the question You guys are SO right. But, it seems practically impossible and SUPER hard .
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reader, caroline1955 +, writes (11 March 2011):
Hi, Forget about him for two reasons:1- He obviously loves her since he had the chance to be with you when he broke up with her , but he eventually took her back. 2- You said she's your friend, you should never do that to your friend. 3- Even if you try and steal him: she will hate you forever and he will never respect you for what you did to your own friend. Trust me, what you have for him is only stupid attraction mixed with jaleousy ...and it will go away easily if you find yourself a single guy who you can have fun with and focus on how to make your own happiness rather than trying to steal others'..Good luck..xx
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