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writes:does this guy like me or do you think he's just joking around ?. i've seen him in a bar in my home town three tiems now. the first time i saw him, i started dancing with him, which he didn't mind lol. the next time i saw him, i walked past him to go to the ladies room, and he shouted to me and he told his friends that he had my knickers ( even though he didn't ) !. As i was walking out of the ladies room, i heard his female friend say " she's coming back now " to him. One of his male friends asked me if i wanted a drink, but my friends had just bought me one and were sat at another table, so i thought it would have been rude to sit with them and not with my friends. that guy also said " come over here to you dad " , to me, which was obviously a sexual comment !. his friends laughed when he said that, but then he told me not to take him on with what he was saying . i saw him again last week, and he said " i know you " , in a funny way, as if he was trying to make me laugh. he was just walking past. the thing is, a girl was sort of dragging him along ( i'm not sure if she was his girlfriend or a friend, as i only saw them briefly last week ).sometimes i dont mind men having a rude sense of humour. i'm not always offended by it, but i know that some men can go too far with it. and i do like it when men have a sense of humour in general. i dont know if he is/ was attracted to me or not. when i saw him last week, it had been a few weeks since i saw him before that. i only saw him briefly last time as my friend who i was with wanted to go to another bar, as we had been in that bar for a while . i keep wondering why he made the " i know you " comment. He was smiling as he said it. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Honestly, he seems like an asshole.
He has absolutely no flirting skills and to me it seems more like he is putting you down then hitting on you. Personally, a guy like that I would stay FAR FAR away from. Specially of his female friends are in on the "joke" on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): I also wanted to add that his female friend, who said, "she's coming back now," to him, waved to me and said hi when i walked past again, the second time i saw him.he had left then. i was wondering if he was also flirting when he said, " i know you."the funny thing was, i said the same thing at the same time and said ''i remembered'' the other times i saw him.i'm not sure what to do if i see him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): Hmmm..I don't think this was him having a sense of humour. He was showing off to his mates and putting you down at the same time.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (11 March 2011):
 He probably thinks your hot and he's flirting with you in his own odd way and that's really all there is to it. I don't think you should be spending any time out of your life worrying about this situation.
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