Is he controlling or abusive?

A female age 30-35, *oveitlongtime writes:

So I have been seeing, not dating with this guy for a couple months now, we have had a couple fights, every time his fault, and he comes running back to me, one incident I tried to ignore him and he kept contacting me once to my phone twice to my face book. Thinking it was cute he was pursuing me went along with it, now I am starting to notice odd behavior, I went out with him the other day, we went to run some arrons, first off he locks me in the car, and grabs his cell phone, I asked him why he locked me in the car, and he said oh I think I forgot you were in there, we then stopped at the gym where one of the trainers had me go over to the desk, and there he followed me over to the trainer and started peering over my shoulder at what we were doing and talking about, he got even more mad when I started flirting with another guy, he has some girls and I have some guys, I of course am not hanging with anyone else, but I flirt as much as he does, then he tells me oh if you do this, like I am never gonna talk to you again, and always is putting me on time limits, and I barely know the kid, what do I do, and every time I don't answer him he goes bizurk WHY IS IT IGNORE ME O CLOCK, like he's insane what do I do?

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