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writes:Do you think it can work out between a 17 year old boy and a 20 year old girl? Reply to this Question
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reader, Whos that chick xxx  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 I think that age doesn't matter if you both are in a happy relationship and willing to give it ago then there is nothing to worry about :) go for it hope this helped abit
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reader, cutiegirly500 +, writes (11 March 2011):
 of course! As long as you two love each other and trust each other, yes of course it is okay :)
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reader, pti bb  +, writes (11 March 2011):
Hi..I understand perfectly what u mean because I'm 19 year old boy and my girl is 22.We are together since more than 1 year and we really really love each other..Age difference wasn't a big deal for us.When we fell in love,she asked me if the fact that she's older than me disturbs me.I was amazed about how straight she took it.Personally,I don't see any problem in age difference,specially when the girl is older:if there's true love,why it shouldn't work?
Both should understand each other but like *Abella* said,minds and attitude will be different and its absolutely true!There will be some fights,its unavoidable,but as I said if both really love each other,they will do anything to stay together.
Hope I've answered your question:)
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reader, dannn +, writes (11 March 2011):
Was just in a long term relationship with a girl who was 3 years older than me, and it can definitely work! Although I understand that for women age seems to be more of an issue than with us men (age doesn't define someone's maturity). So if you want it to work than it can work great! But keep in mind you can't think of yourself as "older" and "wiser" but each of you as equals. My ex left me for an older dude and I suspect she started feeling insecure about herself and thought of me as less experienced in life. Don't let this happen to you, I'm sure the dude rocks, good luck!
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reader, Abella +, writes (11 March 2011):
 if it works out as a permanent long term love partnership, when he turns 80 you will be 83. Doesn't sound such a big ask when put like that, does it.
But being practical respect each other as friends, but realise a lot can change, and change very quicky when you are 20 and 17. Minds and feelings and attitudes are still rapidly changing as your minds and bodies change.
Hope all goes well.
Just be friends for a while, friends who choose to share some great talks, walks and outings together, and see how it develops
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): Age is nothing but a number, if you guys want to be together who's to stop you?
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Both parties have a lot lot lot of growing up to do (I don't mean physically). People go through changes constantly in life... their personalities, emotions, traits, outlooks, and behaviors, etc., all alternate as they live on. These changes re especially active in people yall's age. Your relationship could work out if those changes are worked on TOGETHER and ya'll grow together, not apart. It would take a lot of patience, understanding and a lot of sacrifice on both ya'll. Asking if it "can" work out is not really valid, because that is really up to you.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Don't have sex with him! It's statutory rape until he turns 18.
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