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writes:Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about going out and stuff and we both are kinda attracted to each other.There is this other girl who's best friend(girl) goes out with my best mate(boy).The first girl and I have said I love you to each other and stuff and I think I still like her, we talked on the phone today for about 1 hour today as well.Today my best girl friend and I walked home as usual and we hugged alot and I picked her up in like a romantic way and I think I like her as well.And this other girl came to my youth group today(only second time we have met) she asked me for my phone number, kissed me on the cheek, sat on my lap and was hugging me all the time. All of the other people there said we should like go out and stuff. I am so conflicted at the moment and I don't war to two time or hurt anyone.Thanks
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 My advice is to spend time with all 3 and then that will help you figure out who you like more. If I had to pick for you now..it sounds like you like the second girl.
The first, if you liked her then you would have made something with her happen by now. Third girl just sounds like some flirty chick, maybe if you got to know her then something might blossom.
Your choice, spend time with each one then decide from there.
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (12 March 2011):
Jackalus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I don't know which one I like the most. I need ideas on how to find out
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 March 2011):
Ok so out of those 3 girls which one do you like the most?
Also to be fair, let's save the "I love you's" for when you're in a relationship. So no more telling that one girl you love her when you like 2 other girls too.
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (12 March 2011):
Jackalus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry for not being clear there are 3 girls overall and none of them have boyfriends.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 March 2011):
You're not two-timing (cheating) anyone since you don't have a girlfriend.
No wonder you're conflicted, I counted 4-5(?) girls in your post that potentially like you or you like them. One of them is off-limits, that's your best girl friend seeing as she already has a boyfriend who happens to be your best mate.
Now which one do you like?
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reader, Aunty Honest +, writes (12 March 2011):
 The only thing you can do to hurt the fewest number of people is take time out and think about what/who you want. If you don't find that there's one particular girl you want more than anyone...then you probably don't like any of them enough to actually go out with them! Whatever relationship you do enter, make sure you take it slowly and that you really like the girl in quesiton-otherwise you will hurt someone!.
Good luck
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