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*arblerbird
writes:I feel physically sick from the sadness and loneliness when I'm disappointed and hurt by the one I love, torn between forgiving or moving on. Being faced with the prospect I'll have to leave them stimulates this sick feeling. How can I deal with this sort of physical reaction? Reply to this Question
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reader, uncle bob +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Been there, done that!Guess what... you'll survive!What your feeling is a little mental anguish. It's not physical at all, it just seems that way.You're the one in control of your emotional state.Why not choose to feel something else? It's up to you.Now, if you feel the one you love, hurts and disappoints you, why not just walk away? If what you say is true, it's clear he doesn't love you. Time to move on.On the other hand, maybe your expecting more from him than he's capable of giving.In either case, it's clear the two of you are not suited for each other. Again, time to move on.The sick feeling will eventually leave, and you will be able to get on with your life.I wish you all the best,Good Luck.
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