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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really like one of my best friends brother.He's a year younger than me but very mature for his age.I liked him two years ago but I was very deluded, my best friend was fine with it then, it actually made us really close.I got over him.But now I like him again.I told a few of my friends, including the one who's brother it is.I don't think my friends coping with it as well as she did before, she's diagnosed with clinical depression recently and I can't get through to her.Her brother is a genuinely lovely and I really like him and this time I'm sure its not a deluded crush, I REALLY REALLY like him.Both his Mum and my friend who's his sister have said he wouldn't want an older girl right now.He also got a girlfriend about a week ago, which has upset me.I don't have any friends who I'm really close to who I can talk to.I don't know what to do, I've tried ignoring my feelings but I can't.How can I go about liking him? Its very awkward and I just want to get over him.
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (13 March 2011):
If you like someone tell let them know discreetly. If he is in a relationship, you have to decided if you want to embarrass yourself.We only live once and its always best to live know that you tried that in regret.
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