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anonymous
writes:I have been going out with my partner for around 2 n half years and we are engaged I am only 19 and at first I was happy but now I'm having doubts. I am beginning to worry if I am too young as he's the only guy I've ever been with n I'm wondering if I'm missing out on life. He loves me very much n I know he cares for me that I don't want to hurt him but I don't want to make a big mistake. I'm also worried if I finish with him n regret it for the rest of my life that can someone please let me know what to do or if they have been in a similar situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): I am the author of this question
Thank you for your advice. I never thought I'd end up in this situation second guessing my engagement. I just don't want to make a mistake getting serious so young but also don't want to make a mistake losing him either though. I think I'm going to ask my mom for advice n see how she thinks I should handle it. Part of me wants to be with him but the other wants to be single for a while so I can enjoy my youth n feel like it hasn't passed by me
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (11 March 2011):
In my opinion, if you are currently having doubts, better to reconsider the marriage. Your guy will recover from your decision. Once you are married, the babies can come rolling in, there can be financial worries, both need to have jobs to afford the nice lifestyle that most young persons want. Houses, cars, furniture, daily groceries, and all that goes into a household can take a toll on one not ready for these grown-up items. And, if it is true love, you two can reconnect and eventually tie the knot. But, whatever your decision, do not second guess it. Just move forward in your young life.
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