A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i am seeing this guy who really seemed to be the one i really wanted my whole life , actually im 20 but ive been through a really hard time fixing my broken heart ,so .. right in the moment that i was thinking how lucky i am and how exciting he is , i found out he's got a gf for 3 years ! i broke up everything but he didnt let me go , we saw each other again and again , he speaks of her like she isnt atractive for him anymore or she isnt good enough but she is really a nice gal , sometimes i think he loves me and some times ... after that i wanted to end it for 2 3 times but he insists , he convices me that i should stay iam madddly in luv with him , what should i do !!!!!
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female
reader, MissKin +, writes (6 February 2011):
Just leave him. Why is he stringing some poor girl along? What happens if you stay and in a few years YOU'RE the one he's 'not really attracted to anymore'. It's either you or her. It isn't fair that he is doing this to either of you.
You have to ask yourself, what kind of a man, strings along a girl who could be living her life with a more deserving man, when he is cheating on her with somebody else?
Leave him. Find someone better. Stop helping him break his girlfriends heart.
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