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female
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anonymous
writes:hiii, i m married for 10yrs nd have a 9yr old child. we had a love marraige after dating for8 yrs. last jan '2010 my hubby was diagnosed with early liver cirrhosis with grade -1 varices. after dat he quit drinking 4 about 3-4 months and was back to alcohol after dat. since june 2010 he is having an affair witha girl almost 1/2 his age. i tried to make him and dat girl both of them see sense - he is creating a bad influence on d child, their relationship has no future etc.. but they both r just not ready to give up. dat bitch is ready to stay as his kept. she comes from a poor family and was working as a baby sitter in my house (in India) imagine her standard. i use to have arguments with my husband off and on. deep in my heart i think dat this girl is just manipulating on him. all her family knows about all this and still do not have any objection. now this dec - 2010 he was again admitted with obviusly a bad liver and grade - 3 varices with active bleeding for about almost a month.he promised to turn a new leaf in all ways after being discharged. but now after a month he is again back to alcohol as well as with dat girl claiming he is never going to leave her. if i walk ou he is going to put himself in a mess by not coming home on time, not taking his medicines , bringing dat bitch home etc... i m so confused i want to send him to a rehab but he is not ready. i want to dump him and move ahead with my kid but some how i donnot want to see him end his life in a worst way. if it wouldn't have been for his cirrhosis i would not even have thought twice. maybe i still care. if anybody can help i would be grateful.
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