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*elissa-Jade
writes:We were together for 2 yrs. Broke up 2 weeks ago as he was stressed with Uni and isn't doing well. He's 27 and I'm 23. We have not spoken at all since. By the looks of things on his facebook he seems to be moving on by always saying he's going out and commenting his mates saying he's single. Although I think it might just be an 'act' and I've been trying to do the same. Anyway, a few days ago he uploaded his photos of our trip abroad at Christmas and tagged me in every one of them (none of him as there werent any)it was just me and sight seeing. I've ignored what he has done so far but why would he do that but not talk to me? I would like to ask him to remove a couple of the photos because I look bad in them but I don't know if I should? I'm sure he just uploaded them to get a reaction from me as I would usually comment on them.All I want is for us to get back together but don't want to chase after him since he ended things with me.
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reader, Melissa-Jade +, writes (6 February 2011):
Melissa-Jade is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi! Thank you both for your answers! Turns out he saw the pictures I'd uploaded of me out with friends the other night and he told a friend of mine that I looked really good and happy. He then texted me and just asked how Uni was going etc. I guess that is a good sign... I'll just sit back now and hopefully he'll make another move.
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reader, Melissa-Jade +, writes (6 February 2011):
Melissa-Jade is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi! Thank you both for your answers! Turns out he saw the pictures I'd uploaded of me out with friends the other night and he told a friend of mine that I looked really good and happy. He then texted me and just asked how Uni was going etc. I guess that is a good sign... I'll just sit back now and hopefully he'll make another move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): I'm sorry but i disagree with the last poster,about posting photos of yourself etc.i dont think facebook should be used to play games with people.not only is it childish,its also emotionally draining.i know,i've been there.thats one reason why i hate facebook. i do agree with the first part of the post though,about sending him a private message.
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reader, ailemaaax  +, writes (6 February 2011):
If you want him to remove the bad photos, just calmly send him a private message and ask him to take them down, nothing else. If he then replies no, just ignore him. If he replies yes, just say thank you and leave it at that. He may try to use this as a means of sparking a conversation with you -- just ignore it and only deal with the issue at hand [the photos].Just be happy -- or pretend to be, if you aren't. When he sees that you appear to be having a great time without him, hanging out with your mates and smiling and laughing, he might realize what he's lost and want back in. (: That's what I've always found with boys. They want you the most when you don't want them. Don't be mean to him, just pretend he doesn't exist. Give a friendly nod if you see him and leave it at that. After 2 years, he WILL be missing you, and I think you're probably right that all that stuff he's saying about single is just to get a reaction -- I think you're putting fuel on the fire to go back and say similar things yourself. You could optionally launch your own facebook attack -- go out with friends, maybe to a club, and make sure to get LOTS of pictures of how happy you are and how good you look! ;) Then upload them onto facebook. He will look at them [trust me, he will], and when he does he'll want this attractive, happy girl who DOESN'T need a guy on her arm to have a great time, back. (:Hope something in there helps.
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