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She said she loved me. how was she able to move on so soon?

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Question - (5 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So my ex and I have been broken up for a few months now. And the breakup has been really hard for me because I loved her very very much. When we broke up she stated her reasons for the breakup was that we were different people. This issue never popped out throughout the year that we were together and it just really confused me when she said that. Everything happened so quickly and I asked her if there was another guy in her life that she was interested and she said no.

But only just a few days later she already starts dating somebody else, and then he becomes her boyfriend a week later. And this guy i was aware of during our relationship. He was talking to her and stuff, I can only assume that they were texting too. I was cautious of him because he was talking to her much more then a friend would. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship and I was her first boyfriend since her rough divorce.

So my question is how can my ex have have moved on so quickly, especially only less then 2 weeks after ending things with me? I mean she continually told me that she loved me, even several days we broke up. And now pretty much turned her back on me like i don't exist.

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A female reader, ailemaaax New Zealand +, writes (6 February 2011):

I'm sorry, that must be hard for you. There is no real answer to that question, but you wouldbe best to move on. (: you deserve better.

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