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female
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30-35,
*ottie.X
writes:Please help, I know it's long...Ok. Me and a guy once liked each other. He showed interest a lot (he's loud too) for a year but I was quite shy and never really responded and sometimes ignored him. I know it was wrong and I've paid for it now but I'm never doing that ever again. Anyway, the next year back at school he started ignoring me and whenever I looked at him he'd just stare straight past me, like what I did. This behaviour went on for months to the point I was sure he'd gotten over me when one day I looked at him walking up the aisle and he slowed down and stared back, but had a sad-ish look on his face before he looked away? The next day he'd turn his head the other way when we walked towards each other and he'd block the doorway to the classroom. I got so sick of hurting all the time about 2 weeks after that I put up a quote as my status on Fb about moving on which I regretted. Then a week later he put up a status on Fb about relationships (which he never has done on Fb) about how they seem all good but there's always got to be some sort of imbalance when one person does something considered unfair by the other person. A friend once said "Hey, where did [my name] go?" and as this guy I like walked past he turned around when my friend said that. After a 2 week holiday he watched me walk in class but I stared straight past him (I don't know why!! :( ) and it went back to nothing. Last day of school I sent him a congratulatory message on Fb and tried to be nice and 2 entire days later he sent a really nice reply saying "Hey __!" and thanked me 'very much, you too' and wished me a great holiday and good luck with exams. -even though he was online the morning after I'd sent it (he updated his status next morning about being home alone). A week later after an exam I paused on my way out of the corridor 'cause I saw someone about to come out of the room next door to mine and I thought it might be my friend so I waited, but then he came out giving this big sigh then he saw me and just sort of stood in the doorway looking. I looked suprised that it was him then walked out. My mind screamed "What! Don't walk away!!" but I just did, argh! Then we had a long 2 month holiday.Anyway, it's the first few days back at school and as usual, he's acting like he doesn't care. Our class was sitting in a circle and passing a sheet around to me and when it got to him he just ignored it and carried on with his own writing til some othr girl retrieved it. He talked to a girl next to me and reffered to the rest of her group (I was the only in the group there at the time) but he avoided looking at "the rest of the group." I wanted to try to talk to him and make friends with him for the sake of not regretting anymore and if he doesn't care, then at least I tried. But I get so put off by how he's just getting on with his life, not caring. Sorry it's so long. Help?
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