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writes:Hey, i have a GF of 1 year and 3 months, she lives with me and we are deeply in love, recently she has been talking to her ex BF on facebook and yesterday he asked her to go to brighton with him today to pick shoes, she also wants to go in his house to see his new pet hamster -.-, i was so upset and she still went, she is there with him now and isnt answering her phone! im shitting it i love her so much and it will break my heart if she gets back with him... what can i do?
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (6 February 2011):
She says it's your fault. Does it means she is dumping you? Is she going to wear a tattoo with her ex's name? Or she wants her ex be there while she's getting tattooed?
As I told you before you have to figure out what is she up to. I don't reckon that going to see him again is a good sign. I know you love her but if she is decided to hurt you there is nothing you can do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has gone to his house again today to watch movies. She said to me last night 'i want his tattoo but i only want him there when im getting it done.' WTF is this shit, she says it's my fault because I've changed, but so has she. I'm hurting real bad and waiting for her to get home. I have no idea what to say or do, I haven't eaten anything for the past 2 days because I feel empty....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): Why you didn't go with her? What's wrong with that?
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (5 February 2011):
Let's see. Right now there is nothing you can do, but wait.
In the meantime, she shouldn't have seen him if you were upset about it. You have the right to ask her not to visit her ex alone. If she doesn't care what you feel about that, maybe she doesn't care about you. Or at least seeing her ex is more important than having a good relationship with you.
As I told you before, I think you should wait and confront her when she is back. I see you don't want to loose her. But you have to figure out whether keeping her is a good idea.
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