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writes:im not sure whats happened to me but i was working with a guy for nearly two years-hes switched departments and im gutted. i didnt realise the depth of my feelings for him. i was attracted to him from the start and we enjoyed each others company and over time became good friends. he was getting a lot of aggro from a manager who i was defending him against and because he was new this manager wanted him gone so i helped him to get his work up to scratch and supported him through all kinds of stuff. then a new position came up-he saw it as a chance to get away from this manager. i thought id be ok but even after he went i was shell shock gutted and felt hollow-why ? he has kept in touch but its been sporadic. that has upset me aswell as we were really close. im also worried because a guy hes now working with isnt that keen on me but he says dont worry as hes a fool.when im with him he makes me feel so good about myself i think im in love with him big time but we had a chat a while ago half serious and he said he wouldnt want to lose the friendship but would definitely date me. but now hes slightly distant and im scared im losing him. how does he really feel about me pleeese help Reply to this Question
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