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writes:So during intercourse i get very wet. My boyfriend says hes never been with someone who gets as wet as i do. I find it kind of embarrassing when this happens, where ever we are having sex the surface gets soaked. My boyfriend tends to go soft during intercourse and i think it is due to me being so wet that he loses sensation. Does any one else have this issue, and is it normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): Don't worry too much about it, like Double M said; you shouldn't worry about it at your age.
If however your vagina isn't that tight as it should be, you could try doing some exercises to tighten your muscles down there...
Otherwise - relax :) :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Him going soft has nothing to do with you, in the slightest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): Don't worry about getting to wet down there, Im not going to lie i get really wet down there and I got embarrassed at first but my boyfriend reassured me that it was fine and it actually made it easier to go in because of my tightness. So maybe just talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. You both could maybe figure out some solutions.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 February 2011):
 At your age, his flaccidness is possibly a result of your wetness but it would seem unlikely. When I was in my late teens and throughout my 20s there were a number of young women who became very wet but it never deterred my enjoyment. Their vaginas were usually very tight, which may have compensated for that slipperiness. That being said, I'll agree that there is some loss of friction (sensation) when a girl gets very wet during intercourse. One solution might be switching to oral stimulation for a few minutes. Overall, this should not be concerning to you at your age. You are simply at one of your peaks of sexual appetite and easily getting turned-on, which stimulates your natural reaction and it is quite normal. Enjoy it!
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reader, rivi +, writes (5 February 2011):
Well what does he say is causing him to go soft ? And do you get this wet with other boys ? If not maybe it's sort of a compliment to him even if it's unwelcome.
Some lube is good to help the sliding up and down but I can imagine an awful lot of it would reduce the friction necessary to keep the penis hard and excited.
You could ask a doctor if anything can be done ?
Meanwhile two practical suggestions : put a thick towel under your ass so at least you don't have to worry about soaking the bed or whatever ;
get him to wear a condom - see if that helps.
Oh, finally - you prob won't like this but have you considered letting him try anal ? He would need a condom and lube such as ky - if it enables him to go all the way to orgasm that's one of you satisfied and maybe while he's doing doggy he could use fingers / dildo to pleasure your vagina and clitoris ?
Just a suggestion......
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