A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i relationship truly sucks!! There is barely any communication, he shows no affection, nor gives any compliments,he has a bad temper.. which he has been controlling, we are always arguing, and majority of the time we never agree on anything.we barely have sex..maybe once or twice a month if that, and i can admit that's me, but how can he honestly think about sex when we have more than one problem to worry about. We work at different times so when we are home together its about the kids.I can't take this anymore, its a routine everyday. I'm young and beautiful and i feel as if im wasting my time in this relationship...so i turned here Reply to this Question
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female
reader, confusoholic  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 You should try to find out WHY you are fighting so much...is there something bothering him? Is it the work pressure or any worries like finances?
Also, you guys rarely spend any time together so how can you bond?
I suggest that either one of you should try to get the same job timings or get a different job so that you can spend time together
OR
Make a deliberate effort to spend more quality time together...find out what you guys are arguing about and how you can resolve it...
Get a baby sitter on weekends and go out somewhere where you can be alone...try to rekindle the romance...
If you can't tell each other stuff or spend time together, how will you understand each other? You guys need to work at it n i am sure everything will be ok.
XOXO
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