A
female
age
30-35,
*enizli
writes:So I've been dating this guy for almost 11 months, our relationship is good or it's not but it's not bad either.He's my best friend, the person I trust the most and the person i love the most also.But lately he's been acting distant, cold and i feel like he kinda pushes me aside.We see each other every day and we spend a lot of time together but he's changed. When we started dating he was really sweet to me, he wrote me beautiful letters, he texted me every morning saying sweet things to me and he was always there for me when I was feeling bad and he used to say I was his everything. We really had an amazing relationship.We trusted each other much, I've always told him everything, I never hide things from him. He has issues with depression, paranoia and ADHD and he always told me about how he was feeling before and i tried to help him.Lately he never tells me anything about anything in his life but I do keep telling everything and for some reason it makes me angry and i feel like im an idiot for telling him stuff and he doesnt tell me much.Ever since this been happening he's become a very possesive person and he gets very upset when I tell him about my male friends, he doesn't like me going out with them (in friendly terms) he wasn't like this before, it's like he doesn't trust me anymore.Before, I was a priority in his life, now I feel like I'm after everything.When we're together and I try to talk about romantic stuff he always changes the subject. He still texts me but his texts are so short and plain now, It feels like he sends them cause he feels he has to. I've talked to him about this and he says he doesn't do it on purpose he says he's stressed about school, but it really doesn't feel like this.I don't know whats going on in his life anymore, maybe he met someone else and he doesnt have the balls to tell me about it, I don't know what to do, I don't want to lose him but I'm really tired of being in this situation, i feel like an idiot. I'm really angry but the truth is that I love him, although I'm not sure he loves me as much as he did before.
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reader, crummyscreenname +, writes (5 February 2011):
i wish i knew what to tell you. i'm having a similar situation. good luck.
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