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writes:So like 8 months ago i had a fling with this guy from work. We were both in relationships at the time so we didn't think continuing it on would be any good. So we stopped talking and hanging out. A few months later things started to burn up again. Then my other half found out and I cut all ties with my fling. I haven't heard from him since. A co worker who is friends with him told me he recently broke up with his girlfriend. So i thought i would try to call him. I got his number and texted him. He never responded. But he did get mad at our co worker and asked why she gave me his #. So my question is how do i make him want me again. I have wanted to hook up with him again for a while but just never acted on it. And now that i know he's single this is my chance. I know he thinks im attractive. I just think he's mad that I dropped him like a bad habit. I was thinking of going into work all sexy like and ignoring him completely. will this work. any suggestions?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 September 2010):
1 - Why did you cheat?
2 - Are you still with your boyfriend?
3- If yes to questions 2. Why are you considering cheating again?
You're playing a few games here, aren't you? Games perhaps you should not be playing. And you're not reading the VERY clear signals that have been sent here. More to the point, your attitude is coming across as pretty poor. You're placing far too much reverence on yourself, and he knows it.
You dropped this fling, cut ties, then expect to be able to win him back. When he doesn't respond, you say "he's mad that I dropped him like a bad habit", like it's a joke or his feelings don't matter.
Yes, he's mad, and hurt. Or was. Now he just seems mad.
Then you say 'I know he thinks I'm attractive"
Apparently not, since he never responded and then got mad at the person who gave you his number.
Then you say you'll go into work and ignore him. That's no better than a teenager. And it won't work, since he's already ignoring you anyway.
Your chance with this guy has come and gone. Too late. He's not interested, and never will be again. I'd suggest you end things with your current boyfriend (assuming you're still with him) and work on yourself a bit.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 September 2010):
 You can't make anyone want you...all you guys had was a fling and he doesn't want to hook up again. If he did he would've texted you back instead of ignoring you and then getting mad at a co-worker for giving you his number. He's not into hooking up with you. You can dress up sexy and ignore him but he's not going to care thus wasting your efforts.
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