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writes:Hi, I've been flirting with this bloke at work whose really gorgeous and easy to talk to, but it hasn't actually gone beyond flirting. Although the other day, we sort of arranged a night out between us next week. Not sure if it's a date or what.What I want to know, is how can I get it to the next step. I'm no good at asking guys out, and just moved to this new city. I'm a little stuck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks guys.And KingofThrong, it's a movie- not sure about the dinner thing. And I've known him about 2 weeks.Thanks for your help x
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 You can either ask him face to face or send him a text asking what he thinks about you guys going out on a date.
Keep in mind that in life there is always a winner and a loser...so say to yourself...Come what may,i gotta ask him out.
Good lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): Just keep asking him on dates, and it will evolve into something more if you are compatible. Don't worry how things will work out, though, because you're already sure that you want to be with him, so half the battle's won. Now, you just have to wait to see if in your time together he eventually grows great feelings for you.
The feelings will grow naturally if he lets them, so all you have to concentrate on is asking him out often, so you can spend as much time together as possible. The more you're around him, the more he'll possibly feel just as strongly about you in the future.
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Hey!
How long have you known each other? that can play a big role on how thing will go, you just moved in so im guess it's a new thing.
Don't worry about asking him out, just let time take its corse if things work it they will =] dont want to rush something good right? =P is this outting Dinner/movie or just out for coffie/chat?
Just take it slow and enjoy your self's out and get a feel for each other better, and if things go good dont wait to see when you guys can meet up again try to slid in another date on that date, meaning you and him get another chance to meet up and get to know each other better =]
At the end of the date if there is a chance for a hug I would say hug =P lets him kinda know your intrested, a kiss will be to fast and you want to keep guys running for you for a bit befor you give away anything good, keep them wanting more =P
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