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writes:My husband has always had a problem with sex. He very seldom wants to have sex and when we do, it only last about a minute or two. We have no financial worries that could be depressing him and we get along great! We only argue whenever I bring up the issue that we do not have sex near enough. What could possibly be going on?! Reply to this Question
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reader, Bee4ever +, writes (17 September 2010):
Your husband might feel better about sex and have more confidence in himself if he knew he was pleasing you. Perhaps you need to explore more foreplay and show him how much you enjoy his touch. If he sees that you're satisfied he might not feel as "pressured" to please you with intercourse and he might be able to last longer. Use this as a time to explore each other and he might look forward to sex more. Perhaps start with a shower and go from there. Good luck!
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Have you Tryed Role play, and teaseing? Men are all about touch and what they can and Can not have we are verry simple when it comes to sex most of the time =P have you tryed to take charge or get him to go for it? and are you only have sex on down time? some times its nice to have dinner relax and then just kind of jump in to the heat and let lust take over, with the time it could be that you might not be having sex enough that he cant last long enough, Sex is kind of like running the more you do it the longer you can last!, but with that you need to keep things intresting and fun, by role play, shower sex making love or just sex, becuase some times somethgin slow and easy is nice but then there is just Sex where you want to be the animels you are =P
Try changing the way you are having sex also, forplay then stop and let him take care of you then lead into sex and dont keep in on one style of sex, mix it up take turns on top or go from doggy to him on top to on your side's the list gose on and on =P but try that, when he gets close get him to using his hand or mouth and let him "cool" down a bit befor jumping right back into it.
I hope this helped!
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