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writes:Hi there! I'm 25 yrs old and i need a baby i'm working and my bf also working,but when i tell him, he says he's not ready to have a baby now mybe 2011,i think he's says this because he is no longer interested in me,yestarday was my birth day he only send me a stupid text message he didn't even cal me,and we are in a long distance since may this year.how can i see that my bf is no longer into me if we are in a distance relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for your adivce, we are not married,i wil wait
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 hey,
After reading your question, I am not sure if you are married to your boyfriend? Do you want a baby with him before marriage?
I think at this point in time when you are not even sure if he is loyal to you or he is into you, this would not be the right time to plan. If you feel he is not interested in you anymore, would you still want his child inside you? At first, think of ways to find out if he really loves. Probably plan a surprise visit to his city, spend few days with him, and get answers for yourself. Dont rush into anything else before you sure about his feelings for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): Sadly, if this guy doesn't share the same goals as you, like having a baby, then ending things might be the best solution for the both of you. And if he doesn't even show any sign of affection even on your birthday then thats a definite sign that he's losing interest in you. I think it would be best if the both of you were to have an honest talk about what you both want out of this relationship and decide if spending the future with each other is the best thing.
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