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*estdayever11/4/09
writes:why do most girls i like and ask out, say they only see me as a friend? im 18 and a really funny guy and everyone loves me!!i think.. because everytime i goto a party or foot ball game or something everyones like BBBARRRYY!! and im like heyyy...whats up guys..i really wanna know, do i have to change my game plan? and i have been trying different tactics with this one girl, and it seems like its going good, but shes talking to someone? but people ill give more details if you need them because im tired of being alone since my ex....( sad face )
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Everybody loves a funny guy, but you need to show the girl you've got your eye on that you've also got a more serious, romantic side. I'm not saying to change who you are or to stop cracking jokes, but sometimes it's important to let the mood shift into a more intimate one when you're not "on". There was this super hot guy in my high school who was always "on" and that's why he practically never had girlfriends. They couldn't get close to him, he was always putting on his act.
So try shifting your crowd-pleasing jokes in to flirtier teasing, and then get a little serious.
Remember: girls love that you're a funny guy. So don't lose that! But, know when to reign it in and how to use your gift for making people smile to your advantage.
Good luck, sweet!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 There's a difference between "Ha-ha" funny and being "playful/teasing" funny. I think it was tom hanks who summed it up best when he said that he'd "never laughed a girl into bed".
Focus more on flirting than trying to make her laugh would be my opinion.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Oh be careful, the class clown can sometimes fall into the friend zone. Reason being you're being placed into the friend zone, because we think you're all fun, shits and grins, but at the same time we think you can't be serious or sincere in a relationship. I would tone down the funny, goofy side of you and bring out more of the sweet, sending a girl flowers side.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (17 September 2010):
Maybe because they don't take you seriously or see you as a serious person! you say your funny why don't you start acting serious it shows someone as being responable. if i knew someone like that thats what i would think! and if he wer'e serious i would look at him in a different light and feel secure with him as well and listen to him when we are in a conversation! as apossed to him always acting like a clown. so the class clown school days are over man up and change your routine.
Good Luck!
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