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writes:So after foolish stupidity, I told my boyfriend I was setting up the "no glove, no love" rule since Planned Parenthood is hella expensive with pills. His first thought, "I don't like condoms, why this all of a sudden?" Uh, cause I don't want to get pregnant? "I never come inside you." Great, good job. Condoms plz. He's angry (doesn't show it but I can tell) and says we'll talk later. He probably thinks I'm cheating or something, his voice sounded the same as when he gets jealous. I know this makes him sound bad but he's not monstrous, he's spoiled and I am trying to break that....anyway, to get back to it, I wonder where can I get birth control pills for cheaper...? I want them in addition to condoms. I am going for a big career and abortion is not for me so I want to be as safe as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): I don't know how to help you get a cheaper pill.... But I thought I'd say well done. It's great that you're being as safe as possible. No Glove No Love, is not foolish or stupid. Be proud that you're being safe. :D
Tell him about pre-cum.... And that it doesn't matter if he cums in you or not.... There's still sperm there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am in the US and because I live sorta in the Bible Belt...Planned Parenthood has restrictions....but I'll be on the lookout for clinics and no worries, no glove no love! lol
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Don't let him talk you out of your decision, he's not the one that has to get pregnant and carry a baby for nine months. He's not going to take the risk of pregnancy seriously because it won't affect him in the same way, which is why the pull-out method seems valid to him. For that reason alone, the method of contraception you use should be -your- choice.
Since you're over the legal age, any free clinic should be able to give you birth control pills for a reduced price, or even free. I'm not sure how it works in Australia, though I know the Planned Parenthood in my city offers a great discount.
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reader, futurearmywife +, writes (17 September 2010):
 In america you can go to planned parenthood and ask for the morning after pill. you can take it up to 72 hrs (i believe) after sex. I know a couple of friends that have taken it before. I don't know about your country but i think i only pay $20 to get my birth control.
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reader, loopy +, writes (17 September 2010):
 yes you have a problem, I can give you the formulea that got me thru 11 years of surfing the finest guy's in this county with out pregnancy.I sure wasn't the problem loaded PILL/Patch/Inject. Or the Coil/Iud. We use the Tulsa Torpedo. A small o.b. tampon. or pearl first times/lightest absorbensy.put a V.C.F. film or Suppository on the tip of it. a little olive oil.install it before any DATE or possible Event for coitus pops up. Then slip in one more Spermicide leave the o.b. in place he will never know it is there.If you trust him not to deliver any Bug's to you skip the GlovE make love. After you get away from the Penis and safe at home put in one more Spermicide. leave it alone take out the tampon and get a good nights sleep.It killd them little zygotes for hours even days.
Remember it is thousands of years in the making. You must be ready for him to lie to you about 'pulling out on time. I won't happen they like the FEEL of staying in for the orgasm as much as you do. Sometimes they have no warning signal it just Dumps the load on the downstroke with tingles commmming later.they get limp after and the Condom Stays inside and dumps in you they can't tell if it is on or not. or if it is in the right HOLe or not. I had Sex with a older guy 25+ times and he never realized it was in the 'squezezed tight' thighs instead of my Vulva. I had orgasms from the friction on my clitoris and the Excitement of Boinking my best friends Dad.While in bed with her next to me.HE never knew we hadour own sexua; leasoin, before he sneaked in.No condom No spermicide that he knew about or even Ask.But I suspected he would return, as he did the first time, so I just wore a torpedo when going to her house.The one time[last] I did get him inside me he blew it in 45 seconds. and I was left to make love to his daughter again before I went to sleep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): "I never come inside you."
Yeah, sure... till he does and you're knocked up.
Stick to your guns! Find a clinic that supports AIDS prevention and see if you can find cheap or free condoms.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Not sure about your country but in America there are free women's health clinics and they go off of your income. If you make below a certain amount a month, you're pills are free and you get a 3 month's supply. But if all you got is Planned Parenthood..I wouldn't even go with pulling out it's not option..it looks like you're going to have to shell out the money in order to have sex.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (17 September 2010):
Go to a clinic!
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