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writes:My boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now and we were going out for 2 years. We broke up on good terms and it was because we were bickering too much; not even real fighting. We hung out Tuesday night and had a really good conversation. He poured his feelings out to me, telling me how much he misses me and how he still has my things in the same place at his house. He was holding me tight and gave me a kiss. He said he doesn't think we are done for good but wants to make sure before we get back together that things will be better. I told him I feel the same way. HE CRIED! He rarely ever cries, or tells his feelings before I do, so this meant a lot.He was even calling me babe. He said if we talk and still feel how we did the other night, that in time we can try it again. I have been thinking so much about this and I want him back now. I know he would never string me along and would never try tell me things if he didnt mean them, so i believe him, but...Is there anything I can do to get him back faster? Should I tell him something? Maybe how I have been feeling these past days since that night? or should I let him come to me? I want him back so bad.I mean I was doing okay without him for that month and never expected what happened the other night to happen. He shocked me and showed me the side iv'e been wanting! My feelings are back for him, A LOT of feelings. How should I get him to come back sooner?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Whoooaaa Nelly. If you want him to come back, let him come back to you. It probably helped that you were "doing okay without him" for that month - it gave him space to miss you and to realize what he was missing out on. So don't overwhelm him with effort to get him back - he is coming back all on his own. Give it a little more space, and he'll come back in his own time.
Good luck, sweet! It looks like your relationship is well on it's way to healing.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 I dont think its a good idea to rush things. He obviously still has feelings for you.
From past experience a break can be a good thing, so can no contact as it makes both people miss each other that bit more.
Give him another 4 weeks and try contacting him.
If you push him to come back before he is ready then it may happen again.
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