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writes:I have lived with my Mum's boyfriends family for about one year and a half now. Before that they were going out for ages and before that we knew his family just as friends. He has 3 sons and I have twin little brother and sisters. His sons are 17 16 and 14 and my little brother and sister are 8. When we first moved in I started noticing all the stuff the boys did and got used to having to live with teenage boys. (It was a completely new experience). About year ago I started to notice the oldest boy. He just suddenly struck me as being very hot. Then I started to notice him more and more. Although I didn't want to admit it to myself, I liked him a lot. I kind of just accepted that I liked him after a while. I just liked him more and more since then. He hasn't done or said anything to indicate he likes me too, but then again, neither have I. I am seriously always checking his facebook page, it is getting ridiculous. I doubt whether our parents will ever get married, but they are happy. If we started going out I think it would be fine with them. I just really want to get to know him more, I just find myself very tongue tied around him. I used to be able to talk to him. I barely say two words to him now. I just really want him to like me. So so bad. I am way too scared of what his reaction would be to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell. I made a big effort today, I have to say. It took courage. But...I actually went and watched tv with him. I so had to force myself so bad. That is how bad it is. We still barely said two words...but still. I did it. I need to take another step though hahaha. I don't even know how.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 You have to talk to him. Facebook won't tell you who he is, it's just a glimpse. Think of something fun that you can do without your siblings and do it. Start with something simple and then ask questions to keep the conversation flowing.
I get tongue tied around girls I like too. It's usually fine once you get past that first step. Once the conversation is flowing, it will be great. Then you can tell if he's someone you actually like, or if he's just someone you're crushing on because of what you've built them up to be in your head.
I have an aunt and uncle who met the way you two did. They've been married for 50 years. It can happen.
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