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writes: hey guys,i really dont know how to tell everyone that i'm bisexual and its killing me :( how can i tell people? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, The Realist +, writes (17 September 2010):
I wouldn't tell anyone anything it'll come up when ever happens to come up. My gf is bisexual and is happy to tell people but only if it comes up in conversation. Alot of people will react badly and try to say that you're not or something of the sort so don't go around telling everyone. If you have to tell someone keep it to your closest friends.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (17 September 2010):
Why do you want to tell everyone so bad? Sometimes when teenagers are trying to establish an identity they try extra hard to prove things to the people around them. While it is entirely possible you are bisexual, are you sure this isn't just something you are doing to get attention?
As the others said, your sexuality is your own business and you only need to tell others when it is going to effect them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): You're way too young to tell people about your sexuality just yet. Even if you're 100% SURE you're bisexual.. a few years later you may find it was just a phrase you were going through, through puberty.
Many, MANY both boys and girls go through the same thing at your age getting confused with their sexuality.
I think you should wait til you're 18 until you open up and tell people.
Once you experience anything sexually with another female, that's when you'll know for sure, in my opinion.
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reader, AnnieLuck +, writes (17 September 2010):
Who do you need to tell? If it's your family, then they should support you. But I see that you are still quite young to be absolutely certain about your sexuality. It can be quite normal for young adolescent girls to have crushes on other girls, it doesn't necessarily mean you are bi-sexual!
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