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How do I play the player?

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Question - (17 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *hat offline writes:

How do you get a guy back for playing games with you for months and leading you on... and then he all of a sudden stops seeing you and talking to you?... I want to get him back because I see him out all the time and i deleted him from my phone... But is there anyway to make me have the last word or make me look like I don't need him and I am not falling for his game like every other girl. I just wanna be different and stand out and have the last say in this... and make him mad and wish he never played games with me!

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A male reader, N3m0   +, writes (29 September 2010):

nahh many people here are wrong. i used/am/ (lol) ok well first of all if it just happened ignore him dont pay any attention, if he liked you alot, he'll eventually call. then you know give him a chance .. arrange a date a.s.a.p and when you go to the date . take another guy or just dont go at all. Lol . I would feel bogus if they did that to me. ( if when you take him back, dont kiss him or hug him. tell him you missed him and that he should look forward to the date. Mwuahahaha!!! GOod Luck ( player) =)

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A male reader, KingOfThron Canada +, writes (17 September 2010):

KingOfThron agony auntsarahrose20 is completly right,

this guy thinks he can have you when ever and knows you thinking about him just drop him like a rock and move on

when he seen that he no longer has what he tough he did, he is going to try again, but NEVER take him back find a guy that is goign to make you happy, and dress yoru self up and just do better with you life with out him and let him. that why he see's how far your makgin it with out him and he feel stupid for letting you go =P

and the best part is yoru life is on track and you'll have an amazing guy by your side and this loser now know's his place and you dont have to worry about lookgin bad =]

Good luck!

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A female reader, sarahrose20 Canada +, writes (17 September 2010):

i agree xanthic however there is subtle things you can do like go out with a gorgeous guy and make sure you look absolutely fabulous. go somewhere where he can see you together and dont look at him. i mean no sideglances nothing or it will show you did it just to make him jealous. enjoy your time with your date and if he approaches you brush him off in a way that hints you are too busy with your date.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

xanthic agony auntThe best way to make it look like you don't need him is to let it go and ignore him, not plot revenge. If anything, trying to get back at him will only make you look immature and a bit desperate.

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