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I'm too old to get pregnant at 39, right?

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Question - (17 September 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female Malaysia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I thought i already post last 2 days ago and i cant find my post so here i am again writing again.

Hello to all, i just wanna ask something.

I am 39 years old. 4 days after my days i took a pills.

But then i realize i am already old so i stop my pills.

I take it only 1 night and that's it. i did not continue it anymore, i was thinking i am already old, there is no way that im going to get pregnant anymore. a day after i stop that pills i have contact to my husband. My question is, is my thought ok? you guys think im not gonna get pregnant anymore? Any idea? Any advice? Any thoughts? I will be very happy if somebody share's their experience bout this. Thank you so much.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

A friend of mine at work had a baby at 45. It happens for sure after you're 40.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010):

My mum was 38 when she has me. And 41 when she had my little sister.

You can still get pregnant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010):

well my mum had me at 42 and my Grandma was 48 when she had my uncle

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

xanthic agony auntUntil you start going through menopause, you're still able to get pregnant.

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A female reader, OhGetReal United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

OhGetReal agony auntI would not put stock in the statements that it is unlikely you won't get pregnant at your age. My aunt had a baby at 50, yup you got it 50 and that was a Whoops, surprise. Stay on birth control, or have your tubes tied or have your husband get a vasectomy if you do not want any more children or have problems taking the pill or smoke as you are at an increased risk of heart problems over 35, a smoker and use the pill.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (17 September 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntMy grandmother still got pregnant at 59-ish. She reached menopause really late. The children had no birth defects whatsoever.

If you're healthy, your baby will be as well.

I hope that helps.

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A female reader, Legioness United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2010):

Legioness agony auntOf course you can still get pregnant, you're fertile until you go through the menopause.

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

As long as you still have periods and your tubes arent tied?

and the man aint sterile.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2010):

Kenj agony auntNo its not to old but the risk of problems will be higher than say 35 or less.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony aunt35+ it's not recommended that you should try for a baby, because the older you are the more likely the baby will have complications or it will be harder for you to because your body is producing less eggs. Now unless, you have had your tubes tied, lasered off, or have had you're ovaries removed then you still have a chance of getting pregnant. If you don't want to get pregnant and think you're too old to take birth control then I would ask your gyno about looking into getting your tubes tied.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010):

If you haven't gone through menopause yet you could still get pregnant, it's unlikely but it isn't impossible

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntMy aunt got pregnant at 40. You are able to get pregnant until you go through menopause. Have you gone through menopause yet?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010):

You can TOTALLY get pregnant at 39! Or 42! It is less likely, but it happens.

If you don't want a baby, you or your partner should get "fixed" in some way.

Yikes.

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