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writes:OK.... So I have this aunt who isnt really my aunt... she was my moms best friend since i could remember. How ever my mom and her are not friends any more but her and I have gotten closer and closer. We have grown into our own relationship and we tell each other our problems and secrets. she looks at me as her nephew and i look at her as my aunt. Im 26 but have a very mature mentality so she loves that about me. She always takes me out to dinner and almost never lets me pay. we go to the movies and almost never lets me pay. If im in a jam and she finds out shell curse me out for not telling her and bails me out. Ive always had a crush on her and as time passes it gets bigger and bigger. She is a very hot 48 yr old woman. Constantly at the Gym and at the salon. When ever i get a call or text she'll give me a dirty look. She doesnt date and dosent have a man. she has a 15yr old son who most of the time hangs out with us as well. The more time I spent with her the more i want her. So i find my self dreaming with her at night, wether its me kissing her or making love shes always popping in my dreams. I dont know what to do about this because some days i feel like i attract her and others no. So Im afraid of trying somthing with her because I dont know what she'll say or if our relationship will end. But one thing is for sure I cant stop thinking of her.....
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reader, natasia  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Classic Mrs Robinson scenario. She's 48. Of course she knows what's going on. And if she is down the gym all the time, i very very much doubt that she hasn't got a lover or lovers somewhere - she just doesn't tell you about it. You are infatuated; she is intrigued and probably amused.
Unfortunately I think that if this goes any further, you will end up losing her, because there will come a moment where the affair ends. You will want children some day. She will be too old. Your mother will freak out. This is all not good.
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reader, Demoni +, writes (17 September 2010):
 If you're mothers reaction to this wouldn't be an issue then it might be time to own up to your feelings about this woman,. But before you do so it's really important to be sure that she doesn't see you as just her unofficial nephew. Those looks she gives you is she really annoyed or are you reading that into it. Mention that you really need to get a girlfriend, that you're tired of being single and see how she reacts.
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reader, elvira505  +, writes (17 September 2010):
okay you said she gives you a dirty look when ever you receive a call or a text message, in my opinion that could be a good indication... and age is never a problem if you both blend like you have described , so i really think you should express your feelings to her and i am very sure you'll get a positive response. good luck mate
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