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writes:(OP'S suggested title)so there is this i like and she knows i really like her -i told her i kind of like you over facebook, the thing is i was joking around and tried to like flirt with her, like i do to all girls but she took me seriously and told me that she dont like me that why (okay great i freaked her out)-so we often talked on facebook and a week ago it was her bday and i wished her (in person)and the next day we had a convo over facebook and she said tnx for the wish and asked me a lot of questions (like where i live, what kind of songs i listen to, about my siblings and such)she then told me that i was the only person that remembered her birthday and that even her parents dont ever remember (i dint ask her if anyone wished her obviuosly)then she asked me to draw to her a pretty picture for her birthday, im like ok...so i drew a portrait of her and the next day i asked her if it was pretty and all (i saw her at school but she told me to not tell anyone about her bday)and she replies "do me something, grow some balls and actually talk to me in person, cause facebook means sh!t to me, thank you and good bye, and she logs off(im like w.e)and then 2 hours later, she writes on my wall that she thinks that the picture was really pretty and she really liked it and told me to fix her eyes i got the feeling that she wanted me to ask her out and so i did she tells me that she has to go back to her teacher or something that she couldnt (after school, and i doubt she was lying cause i saw her inside the class and she left her bag in there) and she immediately tells me to come to some club she is joining and smiles and walks awayso the next day i ask her out for friday (meaning i asked her out on thursday) and she first zones out for like a good 20 seconds and starts to like giggle (like an embarrased smile and starts blushing)and tells me "i don't know, why dont you ask me tomorow and ill tell you if i can come (with a smile)i go home and see she deletes me off facebook, i get pissed and im like screw this girl and dont ask her out the next day did i do the right thing?why do u think she deleted me off facebook? (was it her way of saying no or she actually wanted me to talk to her in person?)p.s. last year, i constantly caught her looking at me in class and she usually looked awaythis year when we saw each other, she usually holds the stares and usually gives me a look and starts talking to my friends and before she walks away, she looks at me again and walks awaywhenever her friends are with her, her friends (always) says hi to me and smiles and stuff when her friends are just by themselves they always say my name in this flirty waywhen we are like completly alone in the hallway or something, she says hi to me and talks to me i really wana just leave her but can you just tell me whats on her mind?what she wants from me?did she ever like me or just playing with my mind?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): She deleted you because she doesn't like talking on Facebook and wants to talk in person. It's not personal, go talk to her in person and ask her why instead of asking random strangers how she feels who better to ask than the girl herself. She likes you so man up and talk to her
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Dear you have posted on here before about this girl, she doesn't like you hence why she deleted you off Facebook. She's already told you twice she doesn't like you in that way. Just because she said the picture was pretty isn't code for ask me out. This girl thinks your pathetic for still asking you out and when she tells you no you don't get the hint. So she proceeded to mislead you, then give you a nasty answer of no. She did it so you will finally stop chasing after her. Leave this girl alone! The girl DOESN'T want you. Period.
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