A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have a class mate at my college. we have been studying together for nearly 2 years now. he's still a stranger to me. during pass 2 months he started acting weird.well, at least weird enough to me. suddenly he said "can i be your fan club?" i was confused as i kept my mouth shut. since then he kept calling me "fc" which i think it's wrong in context. the word fan club in my language separated means fan(can be referred to boy/girlfriend) and the club you know. have no idea if one day he want to shorten it. everyday with or without reason he attacks me with some jokes or multiple times a day suddenly said "what would i do without you?" (mostly after he ask me a few questions of the exercises we must do that class.) actually we weren't talking to each other much and hardly ever before this as we don't have much to talk except some sort of works.it's king of surprise to me. don't get me wrong but i'm trying to put as much info as i could to make this clear for you all helpful people. he usually ask me questions like what's the phone or cars that i'm using, my favorite films, type of books etc. often throw me a look that i don't think i understand. and i don't think i'm that pretty. ask me about my hair style which i don't often change it much. he sometimes jumps from behind my back to surprise me or wave in front of my eyes too close(sorry if the language i use wasn't so smooth) and today he was just threatened a friend who seems to hurt me with words(obviously we were just playing). also sometimes give me that gesture of "i love u" i don't know what does it really call or nowadays it was just change the way of using and the meaning. (please tell me if you know. )he was too serious to any circumstances that happened to me. in my view i think i feel nothing for this guy ,yet. don't know if i should start something.so i was wonder if he likes me or just tries to make me like a fool? or you have any advices or warning for me on this? i would be really appreciate for that too. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Demoni  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 If you're sure this guy actually likes girls (to me he sounds like a gay man who is just very playful and fond of you) but you your self don't feel anything romantic for him then I'd keep it friendly at the moment. He might come out and tell you that is attracted to you none day but until and unless he does I wouldn't give it too much thought.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): I feel this guy is immature and does not know how to approach a lady. You do NOT initiate by flirtation. He obviously likes you, but in his approach his actions and words are inappropriate and he confuses you with them, which in my experience, is a tell tale foreshadow of a bad possible relationship be it friends or dating as this behavior can lead to communication issues. Best to you miss :)
...............................
|
