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female
age
30-35,
*rijana
writes:So it's about my gym trainer. We don't talk or anything,not really and some may go ''well why are u asking this question '' but....he gives me gazes. I consider myself a pretty girl and the odd thing is he doesn't talk to me at all ( he talks to some other girls sometimes and jokes around with them but I've noticed he mostly talks about excersize topics with them,and they are usually fanning over him ) yet he never ( so far ) tried to come up to me and say something..then again I'm kind of a silent flowerl I'm usually into my own bussiness and I don't want to be a giggling fan girl of his,but when I come in the gym or change for work out he gives me these long looks,I see the way he looks at me sometimes..and the other night I was walking out the gym and he was outside with 3 of his guy friends and as I was approaching he looked at me and his eyes were on me and he was the first one to say ''bye,see ya'' and when I walked by one of his friends said '' I just feel in love,you have to introduce me to her '' ,and he said that he won't. Or he does little things,like hold the door open for me if I need to pass ( he doesn't to that for other girls ). Does he like me even a little bit,and if he does,why isn't he trying to talk/joke around with me? then again,that's maybe because I'm not the talkative/open type.I talked to him the other daythe topic wasn't all that good though,I'm being stalked by a guy at my gym for a while now ,I told him,he was sitting on his chairI was standing next to him kinda close ,but he again did not look at me in my eyes ( he usually avoids it,thoughh sometimes I catch him giving me long looks ) ,he kept his head low,his body kind of leaned forward, and listened, chuckling at some parts ,occasionally nodding slowly,and I hugged him at the end of the talk ( a gentle soft hug not a strangling one ) and at first he kept his head low ,but then he put his hand on my waist and kept it thereso..I'm just wondering does he not like me,so I can stop thinking about him?
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reader, CupidsPrincess  +, writes (17 September 2010):
Yuuueeiii... Sounds romantic to me. Just watch for more signals if he is flirting around with you in his own as
the girls are already faning aorund him while you are not.
Meanwhile, have fun flirting! :)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 He may like you, but he's keeping it professional. Do you want him to like you? It sounds like that to me. If you do, then ask him out. There's no harm in it.
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