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female
age
30-35,
*Bolton
writes:iv been in a relationship for 3 years he's my best friend nd i love him dearly but our sex life is v.stale, there is no passion or lust nd iv tried so much to inject some.problem is iv resently been spendin more time with his best friend and his gf ( with my bf).nd during this time found that i am as i have always suspected bisexual. nd that i find his best friend incrediably hot! nd his gf reli attractive to. so much tension nd lust nd not only on my part. problem is nothing can clearly ever happen. so how do i stop myself from lettin it slip when iv had a couple of drinks around them. i cnt not c them that would upset my bf nd not drinkin when we go out would also piss him off (im more fun after a few glasses)cnt say anything nd its eatin me up inside. need to no how to stop myself wantin him so much!
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reader, Eruantion  +, writes (18 May 2010):
Good luck with that. When you're attracted to someone, it's very hard to just "turn it off". Your best bet is to talk about the lack of passion with your boyfriend, and try to come up with solutions together. It has to be a joint effort, not one sided.
If he's not interested in helping, you might want to let him know about you attractions for other men, and that you want to stay with him, but he needs to help you.
If that still doesn't do it, you might want to think about moving on, unfortunately.
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