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writes:Is there a subtle way to bring up sex with your significant other?in my case, with my girlfriend, im not interested in anything kinky, just not the same position every time, i guess you could say i want to switch the positions up a little bit, because it seems like it might be better for both of us.so, is there a way to bring this up seriously, or should i just wait till the right "moment" and try asking then? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 May 2010):
 I agree that it is best to just try it. On the flip side, the mark of a good relationship is being able to talk about almost anything without feeling awkward. Being able to openly talk about sex, what you like, what you don't like, being open to direction, taking direction... These are all things that can make for a wonderful sexual relationship. The key it to not be crude, but honest with regard to desires. If you can't share them with the person you love and are having sex with, who will you share them with?
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Wait until you're having sex. Try just lifting her leg up, rolling her over, or pulling her onto your lap. See if she resists and if she does, don't do it again. Try having sex somewhere other than the bed. If she really doesn't like and and resists several times, then try talking to her about it. But be sensitive, and ask her why she doesn't want to try new things. If she's scared then make sure you're gentle and tender with her.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 It isn't really a thing to have a meeting about! Whilst you're having sex and hopefully you are being a good attentive lover you just guide her in to the position that you want. Most women who are enjoying having sex are open to a fair amount of suggestion. Of course by saying "do, don't ask" I don't mean that you should push her into doing anything she doesn't want to do, of course you shouldn't, but "asking" comes over as a bit wet and weak, most girls prefer their lover to take charge.
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