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writes:Okay, during spring vacation this whole thing happened liek a month ago. I asked my ex to prom since everything was going good like really good, she bought up a special past between us so what the heck why not? She told me she had to think about it..im like oh crud..its probably gonna be a no..Im thinking to myself..am i getting played? So a few days after I asked there was no answer...so im like screw this shes playing me. So I told the girl who asked me to prom sure lets go together. The next day my ex found out she literally blows up on me. She sent me a text like really? going with her? wow ha!. Obviously i didnt want to deal with this since shes blowing up. The next day i decided to call her, so i did and she blows up again! "why are you going with her? Did she ask you? did you ask her? I seen those fb status's between you too. I'm shocked completely shocked that shes blowing up. So i asked why do you care? Are you jealous? youre going to cotillion with another guy. She goes idk! hangs up. Then sends me this long text about being jealous, obviously im jealous cause im seeing my ex with another girl going somewhere. And right now i have little feelings for you. Im like oh boy. So yeah..one day i decided to give everything back that she ever given on prom day. At school i gave it all back to her. She seemed like she was about to cry, I know it was a jerk move that whole entire week she was so sad and pissed off..So prom past last week, i had a blast. And then her dance came cotillion. shes a sophomore. I was invited to go by another girl. Which was last friday. Before i gave everything back i told my ex Im going but she didnt believe me at all. But yeah so i showed up, everyone was looking at me, it was crazy. But yeah I didnt asked her to dance or anything cause well i felt so happy being single again dancing with other girls. So yeah..she looked completely sad the whole entire night, but she danced too. That night i completely caved in and texted her with 2 weeks of no contact since i wanted to move on... So i texted her that night saying congrats on winning miss orleans, and she said thanks i said np, and she goes way to say hi to me. I feel asleep after that. Oh by the way we broke up like 5months ago? I miss her to be honest, I want to restart everything new and stuff and to be honest for the past 5 months i just couldnt move on I love this girl dearly. But yeah..if i tried talking to her about us...idk how i would start it for sure..but yeah guys give me some advice please :]
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Ok, so that was very difficult to read. Not the problem either... That's the easy part.
Ex's are that way for a reason. Let them stay that way. I have rarely heard of a time when getting back together with an ex worked out in everyone's favor.
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