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reader, Love.YouForever84  +, writes (25 May 2010):
The guy she lost it to must have been a huge mistake . If she wants to say you were her first , let her . Obviously she is happy with saying it was you . (:
hope this help. xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Revisionist history.
She wouldn't be the first girl to lie about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): Dude, that's totally a good thing. She's basically saying that you're the first guy she ever made love to as opposed to simply having sex with. You're in a very enviable position there.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Maybe because in her heart she wants you to be "the first". Maybe because it was "sex" the first time and "making love" with you :) You pick.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 May 2010):
She obviously had a bad first time. Maybe she felt used. I wouldn't worry about it. She clearly wants you and wants to believe that you're her first because the other guy wasn't great.
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reader, Plexi +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Because she would rather it be you and if she sais it enough times she might just start believing it herself and soon he might be erased out of her memory. It's sad and sweet at the same time........take it as a compliment and try not to bring up her ex or her previous experience if she is indeed trying to forget it..........:)
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