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writes:I married my first love in 1979 and we have 2 kids together but due to him cheating on me I divorced him. We both remarried the wrong people and always kept in contact over the years and I never stopped loving him.Now we started back seeing each other in February 2010.We both are divorcing our spouses at the moment and I'm wondering will we make it this time now since we both are older and more mature." Dating my 1st husband my 1st love 30 yrs after divorcing him.I never stopped loving him.I'm wondering will this work this time since we are both older and more mature. We were 19 and 22 when we divorced but now we are 49 and 53...help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): hell yeah you only live once, give it a ago! you will regret it if you dont ... i am going to give my last "fling" a try because i obvopusly i miss my ex and i realize not trying is worse compared to trying, rememmber.. we only have 1 life to live.. so no time to waste! goodluck!
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 I think so, yes. Things happen from the past but this what happen did not even erase your feeling to him, that is so wonderful and im sure he had the same feeling too. You had already said. You are now both more matured, then why not give this big chance to both of you for the second time. I think this is gonna be wonderful time now and i wish you both a good luck, peace and happiness forever.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 May 2010):
 As long as you both realize that you BOTH are different people, then who you were back then, and DON'T dig up old bad stuff from the past, I can't see why you wouldn't have a good chance.
Go for it. Enjoy it!
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (17 May 2010):
That's wonderful.Not a lot of lovers get this second that again. However, I suggest not " to make it" soon.Let it happen at its own pace. You both got out of pretty long and serious relationships. Give it some time. Do not try, let things happen. Its been 30 years and I am sure a lot of things might have changed. Slowly get to know each other again and see where it takes you both.Goodluck :)Cheers.
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