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female
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41-50,
*icalone
writes: me and my husband are young married couple.everything messed up when my brother inlaw and his girlfriend move in with us...just to make the story short...they didnt like me and i didnt like them...and at the end of the day my husband thrown me out of the house because i dont get along with them..i was so mad, stressed out and most of all hurt i didnt even want to see my husband face...but i dont know now what to do next..im kinda stuck, should i call him and get along with them or should i just stay away...? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (17 May 2010):
I am very sorry that you have to face this problem.If I were you ,I would not go crawling back home with your tail in between your legs.
You will be treated like a door mat.Life will be untenable and unbearable.It is utter humiliations to go back to him.
Your husband should be on your side .If he cannot be on your side, you are nothing to him .
You have come to a cross road and you have no other choice but to leave this home .
Go back to your parent's home or relative or friends for a temporary place to stay.
Are you working? If not ,go get a job and stand on your own two feet.
You could also contact the women's help center for help or for a place to stay from your abusive husband.
If however, you feel too shameful to face this problem, apologize and go back to his side and become his sex slave.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (17 May 2010):
It depends on the type of person you are. Personally I would not bother with a guy, hubby or not, who threw me out for those reasons. I'd have more pride than to go crawling back to that situation, or that man.
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