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writes:I'm a male 16 and i have been speaking with this girl for about 3 months, about 1 month ago i fell in love with her, and i would like to tell her about my feelings, but don't have the guts to do it, i am afraid that this would ruin our good friendship. For a while i was looking for a sign that she likes me and i would have a chance with her but couldn't get any. Last sunday we went to the park, and we waited till the rain started (we both love rain). We spent a few hours walking in the rain, alone, and when we were heading home, we passed near a place and she said she didn't visit that place in a while, i proposed to visit it now, and we went there, after we finished she said: "Let's get lost in the rain" and she ran off somewhere, and i went after her..we had a lot of fun and came home late...but still couldn't see any sign that she likes me...just as a good friend...what should i do...? tell her...and how should i ..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): I definetly do think you should tell her. I was in love with my best friend (guy) and when i told him my feelings towards him he had said that he only sees me as a friend. Of course i was dissapointed but i was super happy that i actually had the guts to tell him how i feel and take a risk. When you take a chance something good will happen or something bad will happen, but if you dont take a
chance nothing happens. Everything you feel just let it out and tell her, she probably feels the same but is waiting for you to make the first move. But you'll never know unless you TRY !!!! There's only one way to find out. GOOOOOOOO FORRRRRRRRRR ITTTTTTT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): she already knows, a girl is not running in the rain with you and not realize that this is special and that you are special. Enjoy this precious time just being in love and being together is magic, don't rush into words continue to be with her your actions will speak louder than words and let that bring you two naturally closer to each other, be patient, you won't be sorry with the outcome.
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (18 May 2010):
Women do NOT want men to pour their guts out. Action, not words! Next time you see an opportunity to kiss her (like walking in the rain, or walking her home), just do it. Take her hand and kiss her, on the lips, with purpose, with a closed mouth, for like two seconds. If you're walking around going places, just the two of you, that's practically a date. You just want to make it physical now.
Don't worry about ruining a friendship. A good friendship can survive the awkwardness of her telling you she doesn't want to be your girlfriend. You have to go for what you want.
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