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*arrybaggs
writes:My ex started talking to me yesterday online 6 months after we broke up. We haven't spoken since then. So her talking and asking how I was was rather put of the blue. The conversation ended with her suggesting that we go on holiday together.What am I to make of it? She ended the relationship saying she wanted to just be friends, but we ended up not talking for so long. Now she makes the first move and asks me to go away with her. I have missed even just hanging with her, so I guess I'm happy to hear from her. Do you think she wants to just be friends still, or is making the first move to talk and suggesting going away together suggesting she wants more.
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reader, Bickycat +, writes (1 June 2010):
I agree with CindyCares. Suggesting a holiday out of the blue seems a bit full on.
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reader, namu  +, writes (22 May 2010):
She probably wants you back, but take it slow she might just hurt you again.
I think she has had time to think and figured out that she had lost a good guy.
If she is the one that suggested the break up 6mths ago, then she wants you for keeps now.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 She is opening the door for you to go back to her. If you are interested,give it another chance, go for it.
She may have regretted her mistake and time has allowed her to see the truth.
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reader, Barrybaggs +, writes (17 May 2010):
Barrybaggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice so far. Like some ofyou have said, I'm taking it slow so as to avoid getting hurt. But then again why would she suggest going away if we were done? Would going away together not make it awkward if she only wanted to be a friend?
She hasn't mentioned it since. Do you think she wants me to suggest a meet-up or catching up, seeing as she broke the ice.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 May 2010):
I think she wants you back. Whether she's worth your time is something for you to think about. If she ended it once, she could easily end it twice. At the same time, maybe it could work out. Take it slow and really think about what's best for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): If you still love her, this could be a chance; but don't give everything upfront, just in case she walks out again; give in gradually.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Uhm. I think she wants more. If she just wanted to be friends she would have suggested hanging out for coffee or for dinner or such, she would not have tried to generate a situation where you would be alone together for an extended period of time.
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