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41-50,
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writes:I recently met a guy, he’s great in all aspect except for one thing…..he’s a one min. men, s3x with him only last 30 secs… I know that he’s frustrated but it doesn’t seen like he can control it… it’s horrible, I feel horrible – it’s also a major turn off. Anyone experience similar problems? is there a way to fix this? I want to give us a chance but this lack of s3x is driving me crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, vanessajunroy  +, writes (18 May 2010):
If you try round one and two and that doesnt work..
get yourself on the net and get some durex endurance condoms, or.. this stuff www.platinumpassion.co.uk/store/product/84/Men%27s-Power-Delay-Cream/
It's amazing, me and my partner use it all the time for that bit longer.. trust me :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Although sex isnt and shouldnt be the only thing going in an honest relationship it is important. If you arnt being satisfied, eventualy you will go elsewhere. I guess you need to ask yourself first, is he worth it ? If he is then this is going to be a teaching session. I see 2 ways you can go about this. 1. give him the first round with the 30 seconds .. then wait 5 or 10 minutes and get ready for round 2. Round 2 is amazing ! He will last a lot longer and perhaps not even cum again, but you will. Or 2. lots of foreplay no penetration. If he cums he cums, no biggie, because this isnt about sex, this is about exploring each other and pleasing each other, if after however long you intended the foreplay to be, and he is still able to go for it, then by all means, please do. Sex is supposed to be about loving someone else, wanting someone else, and when you make it about you, or he makes it about him, there is to much pressure, and that will kill the sex life. Good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Have you guys tried and of the numbing creams out there or used thick condoms? There are often "less comfortable" positions for men that may help prolong his orgasm. For many, having legs bent is less comfotable. Having him go very slow may help too. But then again, every guy is different. Some come faster from slow strokes.
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