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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im 24 n i really like a girl at my institute. Im in final year and she is in pre final year hence ive only few days to be in college. i 1st saw her when she was in 2nd yr , here is my story-i used to see her but never stalked her ...after a month and half she started ignoring me (not like i do not exists but she started showing me that she is ignoring me......like she never sits in the class in which i was present in break time ....if i was present in corridor she did not come out of class...not only this she forcefully take her friends away from where i was present...) .then in in my final yr i send her friend request on facebook and she accepted it at 1st attempt...then i messaged (privately) her like "how is your exams " kinda things...just simple messages...she never replied ...one day 7am in the morning i deleted her from my account and went to college ..there i found that previous night she asked about me from one of my friend on facebook it self. i regretted and apologized but she didnt agreed to add me and in my message i did one more thing wrong ie i wrote "if you wanted to know about me you would have asked me " and she got angry and replied to shut up and she havent asked anyone about me...i again and again send her sorry and requested to just be my friend but she ignored ...one day i messaged her that "all this supid thing i did was cause i ve fallen for you" ..that day she accepted my friend req again...after that i tried to talk to her in college but she told me that she have some work and after that she will talk ..i didn't have courage to call her again ...after that many times i messaged(privately) on facebook but i didnt got reply so i called her on her cell...she cut the phone, time she heard my name..and deleted me from facebook...after i again messaged her two to three times and she reported abuse for spaming and my account was deleted ...one more time i called her on cell but same thing happened ..last time i made new account and apolosized but she blocked my account..........About girl: she has never been in any relation till date ...previously also she turned down proposals...dont know the reason ...maybe she was in one sided love with a guy in school(i made it out from comments she and her friends used to share) ....or may be her family is very strict ..this is my story...plz help me out and plz dont give negative suggetions ...cause nothing is impossible...i just want her in my life thats it.
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (18 May 2010):
 I don't think so. She doesn't seem interested at all. I know that for now you don't want anyone else but believe me, it will happen. Takes time but you will get over her. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ howcomehoney ,, i also think m annoying her ...thats why i stopped approaching for her ...but isnt there any way i could have her ? and i don wan any other girl at any cost ....
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reader, howcomehoney +, writes (17 May 2010):
I think maybe you should leave her alone. She's made it clear that she's not interested, you are now really starting to hassle her. You are young, you'll meet many more girls in your life. This one isn't the one for you.
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