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anonymous
writes:Hi.I'm a 17 year old girl, and a very confused one at that. Awhile back, I had dated someone - and it honestly seemed like we were perfectly in love. One day, around April 2009, he tells me he fell for someone else, and wanted to be with her. As much as it hurt, I let him go, and things grew extremely awkward between us for a bit. Around June of the same year, he started talking to me again, and slowly yet steadily we became friends again. Its grown back into the point that we're really close - best friends maybe - and he's still with the same girl. He's told me several times that he cares about both of us equally, and I don't doubt him one bit, despite the fact he had moved to Australia and we only could talk via internet.However, sometimes, he does things that strike me as odd. Like, sometimes, he'll say *kiss* in an msn window, and sometimes even slow dances with me on there. Other times, he says he loves me and even talks to me on the phone sometimes in an almost-loving-sounding voice. My best friend thinks he loves me still somewhere deep down, but I wonder that myself. She says that we would of been together still had his new girlfriend not came along. And in a way, I guess part of me still loves him.My question now is, does he really love me? Or am I imagining things?Answers honestly appreciated. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): theres a very high possibility that he might feel the same for you, but dont rush things. confronting him about it will most likely build tension and thats never really a good thing. see if theres more signs & be patient about it, and if you feel you must, talk to him.
hope i helped.
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