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30-35,
anonymous
writes:She normally shows me signs such as:looking at me when I’m not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimicking me, asking people she knows questions about me, showing concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she blushes around me, etc.Last time I was over her house, the only things she did were looking at me (which seemed like more of a coincidence then anything), talking about how I got out of my chair the same time her brother did, and saying good night to me (which wasn’t solely directed at me).To top it all off, she refused (in a shy manner) to read something that I found on the Internet that was going to lead into me giving her a “promise to date” ring. You see, she isn't 16 yet, but I'm willing to wait for her. Funny thing is though, she showed a few of those “signs” after I attempted this.Has she lost interest in me or was it just an off day? I heard her talking to one of her friends saying she didn’t feel like herself that day.I just ran into her mom and her today at a community fair. Not once did she look over at me (she looked everywhere, but in my direction) nor did she show any other sign of liking me.
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reader, cherrybumbum  +, writes (25 May 2010):
It could be a few things.How long has she had a crush on you? If its been a while there is a chance she's forcing herself to move on if she thinks you're not interested.Also, at 15 girls get crushes that are no more than crushes. I know i've crushed on a few guys and i'd flirt with them but have no intention of dating them. Not through any fault of their own, but just by the fact I didn't want to date anyone.By her looking anywhere but at you, shows a deliberate avoidance. There is a chance that she's playing the good old "hard to get" and pretending she's not interested to make you even more interested. The best way to find out is to do something really flirty (not as forward as a ring) such as sweeping some hair off her face and looking into her eyes, if she blushes or gets flustered then she still likes you. If there's no reaction however, then chances are she might be over you. Don't take it too hard if she is though, she's still young and there are many other girls out there.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (25 May 2010):
 maybe the problem is that you are not showing any interest so she thinks she hasnt got any hope left so i say what do you want if you like her and she likes you wat do u have 2 lose?
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