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writes:the other night i had some problems with a very close friend, he is more than i friend, if that makes sense. im 18 and he is 27. he lives far away so it is hard. anyway the other night, we were going to watch a movie together, as he lives far away we were going to do it online. we have done it before and it is really nice. however, he was angry for some reason and started complaining about me. then he left and ignored me all night. i sent him messages on his phone but he just ignored them. i hadnt done anything wrong so it really hurt me. i was really hurting so i called to his phone, he says not to do that because it is expensive for him but i really needed to talk to him. he didnt answer so i did something i really regret. i called to his house phone. he didnt answer but he lives with his father. who was sleeping at the time but woke up because of the phone, and then his back started hurting again. now my friend says he hates me for waking up his father and causing him back pain. also he says that i wasted all his money on his phone so now he cant call anyone. he has said some really horrible names and says that i will pay. i think he still cares. i really dont want to lose himwhat can i do to make it up to him?
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (18 May 2010):
 Ummmmm.... I don't think you have to make anything up to him. He's not your friend. A friend wouldn't call you names, or get angry at you for no reason. A friend wouldn't do all of those things he's doing to you.
You did not do anything wrong. And about his father? Unless his father LIVES his entire life on his bed and NEVER gets up, EVER... and your phone call was the first time in 30 years he's stood upright, he should not be mad at you. Neither should his son. His father either has to stand up when you call, or later... he shouldn't be blaming his back trouble on you. They both sound like trouble and in my opinion, you're better off staying away from them.
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