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anonymous
writes:Hi! My boyfriend and I are together nearly a month. We tried couple of times to have sex, but it all end up before we even took our cloths off because his erection was gone. The last time we tried, he told me that we shouldn't see or talk to each other for a while, that he is nervous, that he has lack of spontaneous, that he is complicated, that he has trouble to fall in love. What should I do? He told me that 2 days ago, and he didn't call since than. Should I call him? Or just wait?
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (16 May 2010):
Probably he's embarrassed and thinks you don't want to be with him and he's just doing you the favor of ending it so you don't have to. Text him and tell him you miss him and you want to see him soon.
In bed, tell him you don't even want to try to have sex. Tell him you want to keep your clothes on and make out, or maybe let him pleasure you. I bet he keeps an erection if you keep his mind off his penis. Then you can just slowly work up to it.
I wouldn't put too much weight on LazyGuy's response. I think the hypothetical reasons he posted are probably way off base, and your boyfriend having his limp dick in your mouth is probably not going to help things, it's just going to make him more embarrassed that he is limp.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Erections come and go. Did you two try to get it back? Why give up so easily.
And what is his issue. Impotency happens for a lot of reasons, it could be anything but this includes the guy having far to many issues to deal with.
Being gay.
Needing something more extreme to get excited.
Hatred of women.
Sexual hangups.
"that he is nervous, that he has lack of spontaneous, that he is complicated, that he has trouble to fall in love."
Doesn't explain why you can't suck on his dick to see what happens does it? Coarse yes, but that is sex for you.
Why is the issue such a big issue? Your choice wether you want to tackle it, or not. Is he worth the hassle? How screwed up is he? Helping your lover with an issue is one thing. Getting involved in bf restoration project is another.
Your choice really.
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