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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Would you still be friends with a guy who doesn’t ever answer your texts anymore, doesn’t care, and ignores you! I wouldn’t. The only reason I stayed friends with him was because I liked him. Not Anymore. I didn’t talk to him for a whole week. Thinking that he wouldn’t care. I think that he really didn’t care at all. Then I texted him that I missed him, which was stupid because he never replied. I still think about him and I’m a nice person so I never wanted to hurt anyone. I liked being his friend. He only talks to me at school. Well I’m graduating so I guess he will never talk to me online or any way. He makes it seem as though he doesn’t want to keep in touch. Sometimes he says I’m annoying and dumb. He is a big jerk. What should I do if he wants to talk to me on the bus? Ignore him! I’ve tried a million times and he always talks to me then but never any way else. I told him that liked him a long time ago and nothing happened. I even gave him a hug and he liked that. I also have been really supportive towards him and he makes me feel crappy. I don’t know what to do anymore. It’s like my heart is confused. I know we aren’t meant to be and yet I still want to only be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Being a nice person doesn't mean others are going to treat you as such. You have got to be strong mentally and emotionally and educate yourself on what a REAL and loving relationship looks like.
Pretty much you have answered your own question--this guy is a jerk, he doesn't care about you, so you should stop texting him, stop calling him, just stay away from him.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Time to move on sweetie. This guy is not interested in you and has made that pretty clear and he's actually mean to you. You said so yourself "he makes me feel crappy." and "He makes it seem as though he doesn’t want to keep in touch." and "Sometimes he says I’m annoying and dumb."Why bother with a guy like this? I know this is difficult for you but ignore him, block him out. He will only make you feel worse than you already do about yourself and this situation.
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