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writes:First hello dear cupied, my name is ari, my life has passed through a lot of problems , I was married beforefour year and I divorced for a big reason i had, he was an alcoolical man, and my life with him was like in prison and God helped me to escape from him with a lot of problem my family helped me so much also I had lost a baby in 7 moth of pregnacy because of biting on me.this situation has finished before 4 years ago, but what happend after two years, a young man apear in my imail and send me a leter to met with him, 34 yeas old hansome with a very blue beautiful ice, a bissnesman , but i didnt know he was married and have three children but not in a good relation ship with her wife , he told me that after secon date and he told me that he is in love with me and he would se what to do with as for a marriage, till then left 2 years and Iam still with him together we love each other too much God nows that better, last time a got an agrument with them to do something for us, he lookted every abilityor solution for us to marry, but he is affrait of losing his children of her wife, he dont love her , i became very angry, also i become very xhelose about him , i love him he loves me , please writte me any advice what should i do in this situation , he cant leave without each other every day we speak and writte to eah other, every day he say to me i love you ,you are mylife, only with you i am satsfied in my life, he is in trouble very much, i cry every day i am not a vomen that want to divorc them but i love him until i am alive also and he told me that he love me forever.plese respond me nobady know about that only you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Hello AriI read this entire saga and although i feel sorry for you i need to tell you that what you are doing is totally totally wrong. this man belongs to his wife. he has kids with her and you need to leave him. what you are doing to his wife and kids is not right. i think you are not a bad Person BUT you are doing the wrong thing. you say your 1st husband was an alocholic and you had hardships then if you went through this hardship i know you are looking for someone to love you. but taking this married man away from his wife and children is not the answer. are you being selfish and even horrible to them. why are you causing hurt and pain onto someone else if you were hurt by your husband. you know how it feels to be hurt so please leave this married man alone. he belongs to his wife and kids. please learn to do the right thing. it is not too late
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 I agree absulutely with Plexi. You love him but please give a little bit love for your self. Find somebody else. Its really easy to say and its also really hard to do, but you really have to do something for your self now. Leave him and move on. Good luck
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reader, lovesickk  +, writes (17 May 2010):
Hi girl,
I understand your situation and there's no question he has feelings for you. But, if he doesn't make a concrete plan to divorce, then you'll always stay on the side because he won't leave his children.
There are lots of parents who have done it, and he will not loose them. If he stays in a loveless marriage, then they'll suffer a lot more. But who knows how's his marriage inside?
Be careful, and good luck. I would say leave, try get a life for yourself. If he loves you enough, he will react and do anything to be with you.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Walk away..........just disappear out of his life and try to move on and find your own happiness too. He is a married man with children, his family will always come first. He tells you that he loves you and all that mushy stuff to keep you around and stop you from leaving him. He wants his family and a little fun on the side.........I'm sorry if that sounds cruel but I'm just being honest with you. He is using you and he will never leave his family. Do yourself a favor and be the one who walks away. Cut all contact with him, don't take or return his calls, emails, nothing!
Good luck hun
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Hello Ari,
You have a very simple decision to make: either end the relationship or ask him to make decision, you or her.
If he loves you as much as he says he does - he will leave his wife for you. But I doubt he will!
Good Luck
Steve
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