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writes: i an a 49 year old have been married to my second husband now for nearly five years , i love him to bits but i have gone off sex this is destroying our maggarige and i want to know what to do to get it back . i have been through the menopause hasa this got something to with it ,ifso what can i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): Sorry to dissapoint you mam but there is only one cure and that is, you yourself. I know that is not the advice that you were looking for but I am talking off experience.
Haunestly, I now 39, went to see my gynie about 10yrs ago.... and the only "help/advise" I got from him was... It's all in ur head/mind. Ur mind plays a huge roll. Be more positive! There is NOTHING I can give you to spice up your sex life. "Fix" yourself. Before your husband comes home plan the evening ahead, be romantic, be positive.
There is absolutely NOTHING for woman on the market. Lucky men!!! Every single women out there's situation differs. Everyone has a story to tell. There could be so many reasons for us to feel cold - what is the reason for you as person to shut that door. Most important, WE LOVE OUR HUSBANDS SO MUCH!!!! We cannot see ourselfs living a life without them, but... The great big but.. and then WHY, why me? Tessa - Very Human
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Yes, women can often lose their libido during menopause. Talk to your doctor about this, something like hormone replacement therapy may help you out.
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reader, iloveyoubabyy  +, writes (17 May 2010):
Have sex.
I might sound rude, but this might help!
Get in your sexy lingerie and set the room up with candles. Make sure he just came home from work or a friends house. Call him in and go wild!
Then make him breackfeast in the morning and be kind!
Show him you 'passion' once in a while. at a Uncommen time and try new things to spice up the night!
Be kind and show him that you still care for him dearly and dont want him gone. Show him that if he left what he would be missing!!!
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